That is true that quite often we do not understand each other simply because we do not want to hear the position of the opponent’s side. The same is happening in the relationships of a man and a woman, especially when they are from the different ethnic groups. The lack of understanding of the another culture often leads to the scandals or break-ups so what are the moments that trigger these troubles?
That is more than important to respect her motherland – Ukraine. This is her traditions, habits and the place where she has spent the biggest part of her life so it is painful for her when someone dislikes this place. Her boyfriend has to avoid talking bad things about that or mock her country. It should be vice versa. The man has to show his woman that even is his country supreme in some ways he still respects traditions and the way of life in Ukraine. It is perfect when the boyfriend is interested in her Ukrainian life so he makes her understand that her world is his too.
The same works on the opposite when she does not understand the traditions of the world of her man. It is incredibly hard to accept another culture especially when you are not prepared for that. To avoid that a loving man has to tell his woman how to deal in this or that cases and how to react on the greetings and other meeting procedures in his country. If the woman is ready for that before entering the country then the adaptation will not be painful for her and it will not spoil your relationships.
Moreover the girls from Ukraine put their families above many things in their lives. They do need constant contact with their parents or other relatives because it is the only way to follow her roots in the foreign country. If she lacks that communication she might become angry, upset or depressed. Anyway it will lead to bad consequences for the relationships with her man. That is why he is supposed to think over how he will manage to solve that situation. The boyfriend needs to provide her that connection with the motherland, for example, from time to time buying tickets to his country for the relatives of her or on the opposite bringing the girlfriend back to Ukraine.
A successful marriage also demands good relationships of the man and her friends. If they are not fond of groom or husband then they will say it her all the time and it will affect the happiness of family. She might once give everything up and get rid of her foreign partner only because of the friends’ pieces of advice. That is why it is vital to keep in touch with her friends and be a good guy for them. It will not only strengthen your relationships but also that allows to understand her needs better because the friends of her are the best sources of the information and any conflict will be solved faster with their help.
All in all, there are many things that may turn the woman off her man. The most important is to respect her and her traditions because that is the world she knows and she has been brought up in. IF you disrespect all she knows it will lead to the bad consequences so showing the interest to her family, friends and culture might work on the opposite. That will tell her better than any words that she is needed and that will allow to avoid a lot of conflict situations in the future.