Online dating begins with the letters. These are letters that decide everything: whether the relationship will develop further or end without coming to a new level.
To make the most difficult period of searching for Ukrainian women on all sorts of dating sites proceeding successfully, your letter should comply with certain criteria.
First, Ukrainian women like initiative and strong men. Between the lines, they are looking to find the very qualities in a man.
In order to make a proper impression, be sure to keep the initiative in your own hands, that is, write first and don't hold your breath. Write new mails even when her answer is delayed. That is, avoid passing the baton to a woman when corresponding; be moderately persistent. Though, do not be intrusive, 2-3 letters per week are enough to maintain the interest, but not seem annoying.
Setting the tone of communication is primarily a man’s matter. Style of writing should be polite, delicate, soft and open.
Avoid all sorts of fogging as to your personality, hiding any facts. Excessive secrecy leads to distrust. At the same time, a man is better not touch the themes a woman may dislike, such as, for example, discussion of his ex girlfriends, shortcomings and living problems.
Feel free to show interest in a Ukrainian girl’s personality, seek to investigate her inner world. By nature, women are more sensual and emotional than men, so the role of her inner feelings is hardly overestimated.
It is a man that should first ask questions about a woman, trying to learn her better. After formal questions about a woman’s work, interests and hobbies go directly to the level of communication that is inherent to rather close people. With a pause of formal questions and answers being delayed, a girl may regard it as a lack of interest in her personality. And lose interest too.
Carefully determine what criteria your potential Ukrainian bride must match to, what you want from a woman and what you deserve. The decision should be clear and precise, as accurate and detailed as possible. Keep the image of your chosen one with you all the time, otherwise you risk to make a mistake in your choice.
Review a girl’s profile closely. If you see she’s obviously not matching your selection criteria and requirements - make a decision to refuse the further acquaintance.
Be sure to notify those not suitable of your decision; you know, not replying to a letter is simply impolite. In a soft, delicate form, tell as girl her attention really flatters you, though the communication has no reasons to last. Or tell her you already maintain a correspondence with someone else. Thank a girl and wish her good luck.